A Good Companion

A man is known by the company he keeps. A wise person is very much selective in establishing friendship. He considers the merits and demerits of a new person and envisions the pros and cons of the new friendship.

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Abu Musa relates that Allah’s Messenger said, “The example of a good companion (who sits with you) in comparison with a bad one, is like that of the musk seller and the blacksmith’s bellows (or furnace); from the former you would either buy musk or enjoy its good smell while the bellows would either burn your clothes or your house, or you get a bad nasty smell thereof.”

(Sahih al-Bukhari)

A man is known by the company he keeps. A wise person is very much selective in establishing friendship. He considers the merits and demerits of a new person and envisions the pros and cons of the new friendship.

This hadīth highlights the merits of a good companion and distinguishes them from those of a bad one. The similes of the musk seller’s good smell and the blacksmith’s bellows make the distinction palpably evident. If a person enjoys the company of a musk seller, he would buy musk,or at least enjoy its good smell. Thus such friendship is a continuous source of joy even at no cost.

A bad companion is likened to a blacksmith’s furnace. A furnace either burns one’s clothes or house or at least gives him bad smell. Similarly, in the company of a bad companion, one is always in danger of picking bad habits, indulging in indecent talks, etc. or at least earning a bad name. Hence the moral that man should always keep the company of good friends and shun that of bad ones.