Ashura – A Day of Gratitude or Mourning?

DR. PARVEZ MANDVIWALA throws light on the practice of mourning on the day of Ashura, in the light of the Qur’ān and ahadīth and concludes that the Day of Ashura is a day of thanksgiving and gratitude rather than mourning.

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DR. PARVEZ MANDVIWALA throws light on the practice of mourning on the day of Ashura, in the light of the Qur’ān and ahadīth and concludes that the Day of Ashura is a day of thanksgiving and gratitude rather than mourning.

Come Muharram and our newspapers are filled with images of decorated street processions and young men wailing on the streets and flogging themselves to mourn the martyrdom of Imam Hussain and his family (may Allah be pleased with them). Discourses are held at every other street corner – by Shias and Sunnis both – in the first ten days of Muharram (recollecting the day-to-day account of the battle that took place at Karbala over 1400 years ago) ostensibly as a mark of piety and devotion. Juma (Friday) sermons touching upon the fateful events of Karbala and the entire period are marked with mourning and covered with a sense of melancholy and grief. Though Shia Muslims held forth in this regard till the last many centuries, Sunni Muslims are also now catching up and erecting Sabeels of water (even in the winter of November!) and arranging huge programmes every year.

The point I want to make is that Ashura (the 10th of Muharram), which was originally meant to commemorate the exodus of the Children of Israel from the clutches of the tyrant Egyptian Pharaoh some 3500 years ago is now gaining popularity as the death anniversary of the members of the family of Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be to him) on the battlefield of Karbala. Thus, a day which was supposed to be marked with gratitude is now being marked with sorrow. We now live in an age where the youth is not even aware of the true significance of Ashura!

 

TRUE SIGNIFICANCE OF ASHURA

It is reported in the compilations of Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim via Abdullah ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) that when Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be to him) settled down in Madinah after his migration from Makkah, he noticed that the Jews of Madinah observed a fast on Ashura. He enquired about its significance and was told that: ‘This is a very prestigious day for us as it was on this day that Allah liberated Prophet Musa and his followers and drowned Pharaoh and his army. Prophet Musa observed a fast on this day as a mark of gratitude to Allah, so following him, we also fast this day.’ The Prophet said that our association with Prophet Musa is more than what it is with you and thus we are better placed to observe this fast. Thereafter, the Prophet observed a fast this day himself and instructed the Ummah to fast on this day.

However, in order to differentiate ourselves from the Jews, it is recommended that we fast on two days – either the 9th and 10th or the 10th and 11th.

In this regard, we again have a hadīth by Imam Muslim where Abdullah ibn Abbas says that the Prophet himself began observing this fast and also instructed the Sahaba to do the same. Some Sahaba told him, ‘O Prophet, this day is observed by the Jews and Christians as a big day.’ So the Prophet replied that from next year onwards, we would, inshaAllah, fast on the 9th day as well (so as to avoid similarity with the People of the Book). Abdullah ibn Abbas recounts that ‘However, the Prophet passed away before the next year’s Ashura.’

It is quite clear from the above mentioned narrations that the fast of Ashura was:

1. Observed since the time of the Prophet and his Sahaba, decades before the martyrdom of Imam Hussain (may Allah be pleased with them all).

2. It was observed as a mark of gratitude.

3. It has its significance attached with the Exodus of Prophet Musa and the Children of Israel from Egypt.

 

SHOULD MARTYRDOM BE MOURNED?

Since martyrdom is a matter of great prestige and honour, the question arises whether it is right to mourn someone’s martyrdom? Also, the Qur’ān tells us that martyrs are not dead. So why should someone mourn a person who is not to be categorised as dead, but indeed very much alive?

Of the many ayaat in the Qur’ān that speak of martyrs, a passage from Surah Al-e-Imran (169-171) has been quoted below:

“And never think of those who have been killed in the cause of Allah as dead. Rather, they are alive with their Lord, receiving provision,

“Rejoicing in what Allah has bestowed upon them of His bounty, and they receive good tidings about those (to be martyred) after them who have not yet joined them – that there will be no fear concerning them, nor will they grieve.

“They receive good tidings of favour from Allah and bounty and (of the fact) that Allah does not allow the reward of believers to be lost.”

Readers are advised also to go through Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 154, Surah Al-e-Imran ayaat 157-158 and Surah Al-Hajj ayaat 58-59 to get a gist of the matter.

 

PERMITTED PERIOD OF MOURNING

Another aspect of mourning the dead is the time period prescribed only for three days. It has been recorded in a hadīth by Imam Tirmizi that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be to him) said that ‘It is not permitted for a Believer to mourn anyone for more than three days, except for a widow whose mourning period is four months and ten days….’

It is also recorded that four days after the passing away of the brother of Zainab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) some women visited her. She applied perfume in front of them and said, ‘I have no need of any perfume at this hour. I have applied this perfume only because I have heard the Prophet saying that it is not permitted for any Muslim lady to mourn any relative of hers for more than three days, except for her husband.’

These ahadīth question the practice of mourning the death of the victims of Karbala since the past fourteen centuries!

 

ETIQUETTE OF MOURNING THE DEAD

Islam lays down certain etiquette when it comes to mourn the diseased, quite contrary to what is usually observed in Muharram processions.

It is reported by Imam Tirmizi that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be to him) said, ‘The one who tears his collar, beats his cheeks and wails and cries like in the days of Ignorance is not from my Ummah.’

It is also reported by Imam Bukhari that upon the martyrdom of Jaafar (may Allah be pleased with him) the ladies of his house started wailing and crying. The Prophet asked someone to stop them from doing so. But when the ladies did not relent upon repeated admonishments, the Prophet ordered that their mouths be filled with mud.

 

HISTORY OF MOURNING

Throughout the 1450 years of this Ummah’s history we never come across a single person being publicly mourned for so long, no matter how high his stature. Many of the Prophet’s companions were martyred or passed away but they were never mourned as such. Even the passing away of the Best of Creations and the Pride of Humanity (may Allah’s peace and blessings be to him) has never been mourned in this manner.

 

CONCLUSION

Call it false propaganda, call it ignorance or call it whatever you may, the plain truth is that the Day of Ashura is actually a Day of Thanksgiving, a Day of Gratitude which is observed to commemorate the immense favours of Allah on his servants, the Ummat-ul-Muslimeen of that time.

Call it bidat, call it shirk or call it whatever you may, attaching the significance of Ashura to the fateful events of Karbala instead of attaching it to what the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be to him) and his Sahaba attached it to is not at all acceptable and the way in which the respected martyrs are mourned is also against the precepts of Islam.