Rape has no caste, religion or identity; ‘it is an act of hysteria’, an act of madness against a sane society
A frenzied attack or bouts of insanity; “rape is rape”! Every 30 minutes one rape is crafted in India. A woman or a child…they are all prey of the rape lore. The rape cases are up swinging in numbers each day. Bruises and injuries only leave scars not recoveries. The victims sooner or later are succumbed or marked as grime. Sympathies don’t lie in its supreme constituents.
The list of names flourishes each year – Nirbhaya case in 2012, Aruna Ramchandra case in 2015, Asifa Bano in 2018; Priyanka Reddy in 2019; Manisha Valmiki in 2020. And who’s next in 2021? Why stated ‘she was raped’? Why not alleged ‘he raped her’? This brutality is not just an android game in contemporary society, the cruelty has been breathing for centuries ago. The social responses, the laws and sections are very tedious to heal the wounds of the victims. Justice is just a dream.
According to the survey, 87 rape cases occur every day, recorded in 2019; 7.3 per cent stiffen last year, and the victims are left in anguish. From 2018, 4.5 per cent rape cases ballooned up against children, were registered in 2019. Further, the government data reveals that of men in India, at least in their entire lives, one out of 5 males are either groped or molested as a child or by the stronger men. Over 50 per cent of them are boys between the age of 5 and 15 only!
A good, healthy society is formed with people’s organisation on uniting aspects and with their contributions towards universal human values. Unfortunately, we have a society which mainly boasts over caste, creed, class, religion, language, gender, and most importantly influence of politics and power is supreme.
One can calm oneself by acknowledging that every individual is not the same and these disgusting acts are committed by a few only who are grounded in their different characteristics or individual behaviours. But how can one repeatedly slaughter humanity and that too with alleged complicity of the state machinery, from top to bottom? The Hathras incident is an example in hand as to why is rape trending upslope in India? Why the Rape Raj is not abolished yet even after the harsh Constitutional Amendment following the Nirbhaya incident in Delhi? Remember, rape has no caste, religion or identity; ‘it is an act of hysteria’, an act of madness against a sane society.
Blaming only a government is always not wise. The crime committed by the member is from this very society we all live in. The government is not a pessimist or mind reader of the culprits or the rapists – what are their intentions or who is to be raped next by them. However, being complacent with the crimes or protecting the criminals like rapists and human lynchers has been observed time and again from certain governments for their political interests, which obviously is an additional bolt for us all – in India.
Rape is not enough to call it a Rape only. It is devouring humanity and undermining faith upon humans. Humans constituted the laws, unlike animals, for guidance of citizens and to protect the humanity from falling apart.
Despite the harshness of these laws, actual punishment falls less severe. The act of sexual violence, swelled underneath the bodies, mangled with a metal rod inside her, hanging her on a mango tree, cutting the throat, chopped her tongue or strangled. Indifference to and tolerance of sexual harassment are to the hilt. Keeping in view the agony and trauma the victim goes through, no punishment given to the rapist will justify. Rape does not cut or mark injuries into the only intimated parts of the body of a victim but pierced into their vehemence. Such wounds are often unseen but never washed off. No amount of guilt or worries will cure it. No functioning of NGOs or systems run by the government or the lawmakers can bestow the pride of justice. If we are in our nerves and understand ourselves then we have failed the humanity. It’s high time we woke up from slumber and educated our minds and thoughts.
Instead of ‘Beti Bachao Beti Padhao’, make our sons aware… that raping a woman is raping the womb of every mother.
Somewhere, right now in the nook of my city, before I complete this piece of writing… it may cross the line into one more rape. One more daughter or son, may be your child, is being raped this night! It pains, you may not feel the actual pain unless you are a victim or from a victim family.
[The writer is an Advocate of Gauhati High Court, a freelance writer and a poet]